The month of February is dedicated to the Holy Family. The special devotion which proposes the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph as the model of virtue of all Christian households began in the 17th century. It started almost simultaneously in Canada and France: the Association of the Holy Family was founded in Montreal in 1663, and by the Daughters of the Holy Family in Paris in 1674. This devotion soon spread and in 1893 Leo XIII expressed his approval of a feast under this title and himself composed part of the Office. On account of the flight into Egypt this feast has been observed by the Copts from early times.
The feast was welcomed by succeeding Pontiffs as an efficacious means for bringing home to the Christian people the example of the Holy Family at Nazareth, and by the restoration of the true spirit of family life, stemming, in some measure, the evils of present-day society.
In the words of His Holiness Pope Leo XIII, “Nothing truly can be more salutary or efficacious for Christian families to meditate upon than the example of this Holy Family, which embraces the perfection and completeness of all domestic virtues.”
DAILY DEVOTIONALS FOR FEBRUARY
THE 1st OF FEBRUARY
WE “PUT OFF THE OLD MAN” WHEN WE RENOUNCE SINFUL HABITS, TO BECOME LIKE CHRIST
THE 2nd OF FEBRUARY
THE BIBLE SAYS THAT THROUGH JESUS WE ARE “ELECT, HOLY AND BELOVED”
THE 4th OF FEBRUARY
THE PEACE OF CHRIST CONTROLS THE THE SINCERE BELIEVERS’ HEARTS
THE 5th OF FEBRUARY
HOW TO BE FILLED WITH GOD’S WORD
THE 6th OF FEBRUARY
GOD HAS A SPECIAL CALLING FOR EACH OF OUR LIVES
THE 7th OF FEBRUARY
GOD ASSIGNS EVEN BIRDS TO SERVE US IN TIMES OF NEED
THE 8th OF FEBRUARY
THE LORD PROVIDES FOR US, AFTER WE OBEY HIM
THE 9th OF FEBRUARY
THE MIRACLE OF MULTIPLIED FOOD
THE 10th OF FEBRUARY
WHEN WE SUFFER IT IS HARDER TO RECOGNIZE THE DEVIL’S LIES AND FIGHT AGAINST THEM
THE 11th OF FEBRUARY
HOW MANY MIRACLES DO WE NEED TO RECOGNIZE GOD’S HAND AT WORK?
THE 12th OF FEBRUARY
THE HABIT OF BLAMING OTHERS STARTED WITH ADAM AND EVE
THE 13th OF FEBRUARY
LORD GOD IS THE TRUE GOD, THE CREATOR OF THE WHOLE UNIVERSE
THE 14th OF FEBRUARY
LOVE IS THE BOND OF PERFECTION
THE 15th OF FEBRUARY
HAVING FAITH THAT GOD ALWAYS KEEPS HIS WORD
THE 16th OF FEBRUARY
THE POWER THAT COMES FROM THE ANOINTING OF THE HOLY SPIRIT
THE 17th OF FEBRUARY
INTIMIDATION MIGHT WORK WHEN WE ARE EXHAUSTED
THE 18th OF FEBRUARY
THE EFFECTS OF BEING DISCOURAGED
THE 19th OF FEBRUARY
GOD DOES MIRACLES FOR US WHEN WE REPENT AND HUMBLE OURSELVES
THE 20th OF FEBRUARY
THE STRENGTH THAT COMES FROM THE LORD
THE 21st OF FEBRUARY
THE FRUSTRATION THAT COMES FROM DISCOURAGEMENT
THE 22nd OF FEBRUARY
IN GOD’S PRESENCE
THE 23rd OF FEBRUARY
THE LORD MEETS US WHERE WE ARE AT
THE 24th OF FEBRUARY
THE LORD KNOWS THE PAINS AND DESIRES OF OUR HEARTS AND INTERVENES WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT
THE 25th OF FEBRUARY
JESUS IS THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD
THE 26th OF FEBRUARY
GOD’S WORD ILLUMINATES OUR STEPS
THE 27th OF FEBRUARY
GOD IS WITH US TO STRENGTHEN, HELP AND UPHOLD US
THE 28th OF FEBRUARY
KNOWING THAT GOD IS WITH US WE CAN TO NOT FEAR
THE 29th of FEBRUARY
THE PRAYER OF A HUMBLE HEART READY TO UNDERSTAND THE WILL OF GOD, WILL BE HEARD.
THE HIDDEN LIFE OF THE HOLY FAMILY
The home of Nazareth is the school where we begin to understand the life of Jesus—the school of the Gospel. First, then, a lesson of silence. May esteem for silence, that admirable and indispensable condition of mind, revive in us…A lesson on family life. May Nazareth teach us what family life is, its communion of love, its austere and simple beauty, and its sacred and inviolable character…A lesson of work. Nazareth, home of the Carpenter’s Son, in you I would choose to understand and proclaim the severe and redeeming law of human work. — Paul VI at Nazareth, January 5, 1964
Since the Holy Family observed the Jewish law in its perfection, we can deduce quite accurately what prayers they recited. The Psalms, of course, were the favorites. Three times a day Jesus, Mary, and Joseph said the Tephillah, “The Prayer,” consisting of eighteen long invocations and blessings. Joseph (and later Jesus when He attained to manhood) was obliged to say the Shema, a sort of profession of faith in the one true God, twice daily.
A very interesting Jewish custom of prayer that must have been observed in the house at Nazareth was that of the Mezuzah, “the doorpost,” and the “phylacteries,” small square calfskin boxes with Scripture texts written on parchment inside them.
On the doorpost of the house at Nazareth was fastened a wooden tube containing a rolled parchment inscribed with the passage quoted above from the Book of Deuteronomy and another passage (11:13-21) citing the blessings of serving God. On entering and leaving the house the members of the Holy Family would piously touch this Mezuzah, saying, “May God keep my going out and coming in from now on and forevermore.” All this was intended to show reverence for the word of God.
Such was the vocal and the more or less formal prayer which Jesus, Mary, and Joseph offered in their home at Nazareth. In their hearts, however, they prayed always.
Just as the Heart of Jesus was constantly united with His divinity, so were the hearts of Mary and Joseph so closely bound to God that their every action was a prayer. — Excerpted from Reflections on the Life of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, Francis L. Filas, S.J.
The Holy Family models for us what family life should exemplify. It is a school of virtue for both parents and children. There we find God, and learn how to connect with God and with others. The family is where love is freely given without self-interest. It is where we learn to love, to pray and to practice the gift of charity. Pope John Paul II has said, “The family, more than any other human reality, is the place in which the person is loved for himself and in which he learns to live the sincere gift of self” (Nov. 27, 2002).
We should ask ourselves if our own families model that of the Holy Family. We need to be open to God’s grace to value the positive and to accept our mistakes — and to be willing to rectify them. Parenting is a very challenging responsibility and at times errors are made despite the best intentions. Recognizing this, children should trust their parents and never forget that parents want only what is best for them.
Which leads us to what may be the most important family virtue — forgiveness. Living so intimately within the family nucleus naturally gives rise to unpleasant situations where someone is apt to be offended. St. Paul knew this when he told us to “bear with and forgive one another.” The health of our family may depend on how quickly we learn to forgive without harboring feelings of resentment.
No family can thrive and grow without constant work. Even the material details that take time and effort are essential to keeping the family strong. Everyone has to pull together for the good of the family — even to the point of putting ahead of our own needs and ambitions the happiness of other family members, setting aside our own selfish desires.
It is also important to pray as a family, especially the holy rosary. Prayer will help us to intensify our closeness with each other and to learn to forgive.
During this Year of the Eucharist it is essential to discover the relationship between the Eucharist and family life. Pope John Paul II wrote, “In the eucharistic gift of charity the Christian family finds the foundation and soul of its communion and its mission” (Letter on the Family, No. 57). — Excerpted from The Holy Family models what family life should be, Archbishop Charles J. Chaput, O.F.M. Cap.
PRAYER FOR FAMILIES
During the month of February dedicated to the Holy Family, and particularly on St. Valentine’s Day, let us pray for an increase of true, sacrificial love within families.
Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, like you we are members of the Father’s family. We pray that our family love may reflect his love on its openness to all people. May we forgive even when not forgiven, and be patient with others’ weaknesses.
Jesus, give us peace, unity, and strength to meet the difficulties of daily living. May we use our family resources to improve the quality of life for ourselves and all people. Let us show joy in serving, for whatever we do for others, we do for you.
Mary, inspire us, that our love may be strong but not possessive. Let our willingness to give depend on the needs of others rather than on the cost of giving. Joseph, help us to be attentive to the Father’s will. Let us be ready, as you were, to act whenever her calls us. Amen
(Source: catechist.com)